How a car accident changed my life

My journey with CHOC started on Dec. 18, 2016, when my dad and I were hit by a car. The weeks following the accident were terrifying, and my 18-month rehabilitation process afterward was physically and mentally challenging. Now, I’m doing incredibly well and so is my dad.

My dad and I were in a movie theater parking lot in South Orange County. We’d just seen the latest Star Wars movie. We were standing next to our car when a driver careened off a nearby road at 100 miles per hour and hit us. I was immediately knocked unconscious and flew into a nearby body of water. I was completely submerged and almost drowned. I suffered a traumatic brain injury, broken shoulder and multiple facial fractures. My dad and I were not initially expected to survive. I was rushed to CHOC Children’s at Mission Hospital. I underwent multiple tests, scans and procedures, including one to drain leaking cerebral spinal fluid.

I don’t remember much of my time at CHOC Mission – I was comatose for most of my first week there. I finally woke up on Christmas Eve, and over the next 10 days I made significant progress – sitting up and even taking a few steps.

Jacob Werkmeister_after accident
Jacob after the car accident.

During this time, my dad was recovering at Mission Hospital. Thanks to the partnership between CHOC Mission and Mission Hospital, my mom was able to go back and forth between my room and my dad’s room without even having to leave the building.

CHOC doctors and nurses exemplify kindness and caring. One of the kindest things they did for us was allow my dad and I to see each other. Once we were both awake and extubated, they brought my dad up to my room. The simple act of allowing a father and son to see each other and hold each other’s hand was instrumental in our healing process.

Jeff and Jacob Werkmeister hold hands for first time since accident 12.21.16
Jacob and his dad hold hands for the first time after the accident.

Dr. Gary Goodman, medical director of the pediatric intensive care unit at CHOC Mission, was incredible. He kept my parents well-informed about my care and progress. Every single nurse who treated me went out of their way to also ensure that my mom felt cared for. She was included in every conversation about his care.

My mom has been a nurse for 25 years. She works with the American Hospital Association and helps hospitals implement strategies to improve outcomes for patients and make care as safe as possible. Because of her clinical eye, she noticed everything that happened with every shift. Even during the holidays or shift changes, she always said my care at CHOC Mission was impeccable. This shows the entire team’s commitment to excellence.

Despite being incredibly complicated trauma patients, with high-alert medications and surgeries, neither my dad nor I experienced any adverse events during our hospitalizations. We both received perfect care.

My dad and I went home after around two weeks. Next, I started 18 months of rehabilitation through CHOC. I worked with an occupational therapist and a physical therapist. I had to relearn how to walk, hold a pencil, do math, read and remember things.

I also worked with Dr. Sharief Taraman, medical director of neurology at CHOC, and Dr. Jonathan Romain, a CHOC neuropsychologist, as part of CHOC’s concussion program. Even though I wanted to speed up my recovery so I could try and get back to playing baseball, Dr. Taraman and Dr. Romain made sure I was safe.

Before the accident, I was a lifelong baseball player. After the accident, no one imagined I would play baseball again. Not only did I return to baseball a few months after the accident, but I recently signed a letter of intent to play baseball for Ohio Christian University.

Jacob Jacob Werkmeister_today
Jacob today, back to baseball.

This journey has taught me so much. I really shouldn’t be alive right now. Now, I don’t let the small things get to me. I know I can get through anything.

Our family could never repay our gratitude to CHOC. We are so thankful for everything CHOC has done for us.

Learn more about CHOC Children's at Mission Hospital

Related posts:

Patients Say the Darndest Things

In celebration of Doctor’s Day, we asked a few of our physicians what’s the funniest thing a patient has ever told you?

doctor's day
Left: Dr. Mary Jane Piroutek. Right: Snow White, her doppelgänger.

Dr. Mary Jane Piroutek, emergency medicine specialist

Q: What’s the funniest thing a patient has ever told you?

A:  Kids say funny things all the time. One of my favorites was a little 4 year old girl that had ingested coins and they were stuck in her esophagus. When I asked her what happened she shrugged her shoulder and with a mischievous look in her eyes said, “I ate the money, I’m not supposed to eat the money.”  Also recently a patient told me I looked like Snow White (which I don’t) and she called me Dr. Snow White the whole time I took care of her.

doctor's day

Dr. Gary Goodman, medical director, pediatric intensive care unit, CHOC Children’s at Mission Hospital

Q: What’s the funniest thing a patient has ever told you?

A: Just recently, I had a patient, who has a mild developmental delay, call me “the boy.”  I would stop in the patient’s room each morning, at which point I’d get asked, “What do YOU want?”

doctor's day

Dr. Kenneth Kwon, emergency medicine specialist

Q: What’s the funniest thing a patient has ever told you?

A: An adage in pediatric emergency care is when a child comes in with a nosebleed, you don’t ask if he picks his nose, you ask him which finger he uses. When I asked this question to one of my pint-sized patients, he answered that he used all of them, and then proceeded to demonstrate by sticking each of his 10 fingers in his nose individually. It was priceless.

doctor's day

Dr. Maryam Gholizadeh, general and thoracic surgeon

Q: What’s the funniest thing a patient has ever told you?

A: There was a young child around 8-9 years old and we were going to remove his appendix with laparoscopy. I was standing on his left side because with laparoscopy we make our incision on the left side. Just before he went to sleep he looked up at me and said, “Why are you standing on my left? My appendix is on the right.” I was amazed at how knowledgeable this kid was!

doctor's day

Dr. Jennifer Ho, hospitalist

Q: What’s the funniest thing a patient has ever told you?

A: From a 3-year-old girl: “I want to be a doctor like you … but only for unicorns and fairies.”

doctor's day

Dr. Andrew Mower, neurologist

Q: What’s the funniest thing a patient has ever told you?

A: “I don’t eat apples, doctor.”

“Why?”

“Because they keep the doctor away, and I like you, Dr. Mower.”

doctor's day

Dr. Laura Totaro, hospitalist

Q: What’s the funniest thing a patient has ever told you?

A: I was examining the mouth of my patient when he proudly showed me his loose tooth and whispered to me that his family had a secret. He then excitedly admitted that his mom was the tooth fairy!  His mother looked at me quizzically and then burst out laughing when she realized what had taken place. Earlier she had admitted to him that she played the role of tooth fairy at home but her son took this quite literally and believed it to actually be her secret full time job for all children.

doctor's day

Dr. Mustafa Kabeer, general and thoracic surgeon

Q: What’s the funniest thing a patient has ever told you?

A: A patient asked me what my first name was, and I told him it was Mustafa. He then promptly told me that was the name of his pet lizard!

doctor's day
Dr. Taraman, pictured with his apparent doppelgängers, Linguini from “Ratatouille” and Flint Lockwood from “Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs.”

Dr. Sharief Taraman, neurology

Q: What’s the funniest thing a patient has ever told you?

A: One of my patients told me that I look like the character Flint Lockwood from Cloudy With A Chance of Meatballs and another one thinks I look like the character Linguini from the movie Ratatouille, both of which I found very funny.  Apparently, I give off the nerdy guy vibe.

Want important health tips sent straight to your inbox?

Sign up for our KidsHealth e-newsletter.

Related posts:

What We’re Thankful for This Year: 2016

In celebration of Thanksgiving, members of the CHOC Children’s family express what they’re most grateful for this year.

thanksgiving at chocMary Green 

Registered nurse in the Hyundai Cancer Institute at CHOC Children’s

“I could list 100 reasons why I am thankful for CHOC. I’m thankful to work at a place with such visible growth: in the number of available treatments, in the percentage of children that are surviving cancer, in relationships between patients, family members and staff; and growth visible in children as they begin to believe how strong they truly are. Even more so, I am thankful that CHOC is passionate about celebrating growth and takes pride in celebrating all of the little things.”

thanksgiving at chocDr. Joanne Starr

Medical director, cardiothoracic surgery

“I’m grateful to be part of an innovative pediatric hospital and for CHOC’s commitment to providing patients and families with access to the best neonatal and open-heart surgery in Orange County.”

thanksgiving at chocDana Sperling

Social worker, NICU

“I am thankful for two amazing teams I am privileged to be a part of:  the social services team and the Neonatal Intensive  Care Unit (NICU) team.  The compassion and dedication of both teams makes me proud to work along side them day after day, delivering outstanding care to patients and families.”

 

thanksgiving at chocDr. Kenneth Grant

Chair of gastroenterology 

“I am thankful to be working for an organization that creates an environment where our patients become our family. I am also grateful that CHOC Children’s has the foresight to invest in the innovative ideas we have to improve the health care we provide. ”

thanksgiving at chocDr. David Gibbs

Medical director of trauma services

“I am thankful for the trust of our patients and families. With the strong support of the hospital and the community, our Level 2 Trauma Center is proud to care for children in Orange County.”

thanksgiving at chocJoani Stocker

Volunteer

“I am so thankful for the opportunity to bring smiles and laughter to our patients through Turtle Talk and the playrooms. Laughter is medicine to the bones, and I am humbled to be a part of the healing. My cup is overflowing with joy when I see a patient giggle and play.”

thanksgiving at chocDr. Daniel Mackey

CHOC Children’s pediatrician

“I am thankful for the opportunity to be partnered with an excellent children’s hospital. I am also thankful for the pleasure of working with other positive people who provide outstanding care to the children of Orange County. Together we work to improve the care and services we deliver to our most important resource…our children.”

thanksgiving at chocDr. Gary Goodman

Medical director of the Pediatric Intensive Care Unit, CHOC Children’s at Mission Hospital

I am most grateful to the people behind the scenes at the hospital that do all the invisible jobs that are so important to keep CHOC Children’s running: the housekeepers, lab and x-ray technologists, bio-medical engineers, pharmacy technicians, scrub technicians, security guards and maintenance staff that work tirelessly, 24-hours a day.”

thanksgiving at choc

Dr. Raymond Wang

Metabolic disorders specialist

“I am thankful that CHOC cares for families and children with rare disorders by supporting clinical trials and translational research, and the staff who care for these families, to find treatments and cures for their conditions.”

thanksgiving at chocEric Mammen

Lead music therapist

“I am grateful that I get to witness the transformative powers of music with amazing patients and families everyday here at CHOC. So very grateful for the generous donors that continue to support our growing music therapy program. Without them we would not be able to impact the families and help them face incredible challenges with courage, smiles, and a song. Super grateful to be apart of writing a powerful song with a patient in response to his medical diagnosis- “To Life Live To The Fullest!” Happy Thanksgiving and I hope you get to spend some extra time with your loved ones around you.”

Matt Gerlachwhat choc is thankful for

Executive vice president and chief operating officer

“At this time of Thanksgiving, I am thankful for CHOC Children’s and the wonderful service we are privileged to provide for the communities we serve. I am thankful for the dedication and commitment of our physicians, associates and volunteers, who give the very best they have to give— their knowledge, skills, abilities, care and compassion— to make CHOC’s mission to nurture, advance and protect the health and well-being of children a reality for so many in need, every day. I am also thankful for those that stand behind our physicians, associates and volunteers— their loved ones, who support our CHOC Children’s team to be the best that they can be, both at work and at home. I wish all of our CHOC Children’s family a happy and healthy Thanksgiving.”

Related posts:

  • How one surgery inspired a career in nursing
    By Lisa Turni, surgical unit nurse manager, CHOC Children’s I’ve been a nurse for 18 years, but the seeds of my career were planted long before I put on my first ...
  • A day in the life of a pediatric pharmacy technician
    By Harumi Hope, emergency department pharmacy technician at CHOC Children’s A pharmacy technician works under the direct supervision of a licensed pharmacist and perform many pharmacy-related functions. At CHOC Children’s Hospital, pharmacy ...
  • From patient to administrative leader: Lucy’s story
    Dr. Lucy Morizio’s connection to orthopaedics began long before she joined CHOC Children’s as director of the Orthopaedic Institute. A self-described daredevil as a child, when Lucy was 5 years old, ...